Engaged / premarital
We're getting married
Answer the questions that matter before the vows — money and credit, children, faith, in-laws, intimacy, and how you'll handle conflict.
Prepare for marriage →100% online · Pastors Leo & Tarran Carter · Since 1999
Marriage help that fits into your real week.
Premarital preparation, marriage enrichment, and support when things are heavy — all by private video from home. Start with the free five-pillar check-up, then one meaningful exercise a week with pastors who have walked couples through this since 1999.
One membership covers both partners · or talk with a pastor first
- Video sessions, no commute
- Evenings & weekends
- Private, never recorded
- Cancel anytime
Relationship health
66 +8 this month
1983
Married — high school sweethearts
1999
Counseling couples since
2005
Ordained pastors
5
Pillars measured and tracked
Where are you right now?
Pick the season you're actually in
Premarital, married and growing, or holding something heavy — the work looks different for each, so we start you in a different place.
Married & growing
We want to be closer
A weekly practice that keeps a good marriage from going quiet: daily prompts, a 20-minute check-in, and progress you can actually see.
See the programs →
Struggling / rebuilding
We need help now
Broken trust, the same argument every week, a distance neither of you can name. Start with the check-up, then sit down with the Carters.
Get pastoral support →Five pillars
We measure what actually predicts how a marriage goes
No vague vibes. Every program, prompt, and counseling session is tied to one of these five, so you can see progress instead of hoping for it.
Communication
Being heard the first time — not the fourth.
Conflict
Repair faster, escalate less, stop keeping score.
Intimacy
Closeness that survives busy seasons and long years.
Trust
Reliability, honesty, and rebuilding after a breach.
Partnership
Money, family, and the life you are building together.
Swipe to see all five →
Looking for something specific? Marriage counseling, online counseling from home, Christian marriage counseling, marriage mentoring, or premarital counseling.
100% online · by video
Meet us from the comfort of your home or office
Every session is virtual. Private video, 50 minutes, both of you on the call from your own sofa — or from two different cities. Evenings and weekends, nothing to install, no commute and no waiting room.
- · No drive, no day off work
- · Evenings & weekends
- · Join from any device
- · Private, never recorded
Who we walk with
Every couple, every background
Engaged, newly married, decades in, or rebuilding — the couples we mentor look like all of you. The work is the same: honest conversation, real trust, shared direction.
Free guides
Read before you buy anything
Plain pastoral answers to the questions couples search for at 1 a.m. — free, no account needed.
Rebuilding · 9 min
How to rebuild trust after cheating
Trust is not rebuilt by promises. It is rebuilt by a long series of small, verifiable, boring acts of honesty. Here is the order those acts have to happen in.
Engaged · 8 minThe premarital counseling questions that actually matter
Wedding planning asks what you want the day to look like. These questions ask what you want the decade to look like. Answer them before the vows, not after.
Married · 8 minWhen a marriage has gone quiet: intimacy that starts before the bedroom
A physically quiet marriage is almost never a bedroom problem first. It is a conversation problem that has moved into the bedroom and set up residence.
How it works
A weekly practice, not another app to feel guilty about
Take the check-up
Each partner answers 25 questions privately. You get a score for all five pillars in under ten minutes.
Get your weekly work
We recommend the program that targets your weakest pillar, then hand you one exercise a week — not a library to browse.
Practice together
Daily prompts, appreciation notes, guided hard-conversation mode, and a 20-minute weekly check-in ritual.
Bring in a counselor
When something is too big to handle alone, book an experienced pastoral counselor who already sees your scores.
Health tracking
You'll know if things are getting better
Re-take the check-up each quarter and watch the rings move. Both partners see the same scores — the app never becomes a place to keep score against each other.
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Communication
48
Conflict
71
Intimacy
84
Trust
66
Partnership
Guided programs
Structured tracks for the season you're in
Every plan includes all programs. Start with the one we recommend from your check-up.
Partnership6 weeks
Premarital Foundations
The conversations most couples skip before the wedding — expectations, money, family, faith, and the first year.
- 1.Why we're choosing each other
- 2.Money on the table
- 3.Families, boundaries, holidays
- + 3 more sessions
EngagedIncluded in plan
Communication4 weeks
Talk So You're Heard
Practical language for hard topics: soft starts, reflective listening, and asking for what you actually need.
- 1.The first 30 seconds decide the fight
- 2.Listening without defending
- 3.Naming the need under the complaint
- + 1 more sessions
Any coupleIncluded in plan
Conflict5 weeks
Fighting Fair
Cool the pattern that keeps repeating. Learn your cycle, your triggers, and a repair ritual you both trust.
- 1.Mapping your cycle
- 2.Flooding and the 20-minute pause
- 3.Criticism vs. complaint
- + 2 more sessions
MarriedIncluded in plan
Counseling & support
Pastoral counselors with decades in the room
Book a 50-minute video session with a pastor who has walked couples through this for 30+ years. They see your pillar scores and program history before you say hello, so session one isn't spent on background.
- Pastoral marriage counselors — experienced, faith-informed, and unshockable.
- Evening and weekend availability, because that's when couples are home.
- $95 per session, or 4- and 8-session packs at a lower rate.
- Shared session notes and homework land in your app afterwards.
- Annual plan includes your first session at no extra cost.
Couple stories
What changes in the first month
Husbands and wives who did the work — in their own words.
We'd had the same fight for four years. The cycle map in Fighting Fair named it in one evening.
Doing Premarital Foundations before the wedding was the best $249 we spent — cheaper than the flowers.
Our counselor already knew our scores before session one. Nothing was wasted on catching her up.
Pricing
Paid from day one, priced under one counseling session
One subscription per couple. Both partners get their own private login.
Monthly
$29
per couple, per month
Both partners included. Cancel anytime.
- Full 5-pillar relationship assessment
- Every guided program
- Daily prompts, journal, and check-in ritual
- Relationship health tracking over time
- Guided hard-conversation mode
Annual
Most chosen$249
per couple, per year
Everything in Monthly, two months free.
- Everything in Monthly
- Quarterly re-assessment with trend report
- Premarital Foundations workbook (PDF)
- Priority counselor scheduling
- One 50-minute counseling session included
Counseling credits
$95
per 50-minute session
Add pastoral counseling sessions to any plan.
- Experienced pastoral marriage counselors
- Video sessions, evenings and weekends
- Counselor sees your pillar scores first
- 4-session pack $350 · 8-session pack $640
- Shared session notes and homework
Questions
Before you start
- Is this therapy?
- No. Two Hearts is guided relationship support built on evidence-based couples work and pastoral wisdom. Our counseling sessions are pastoral, not clinical — they do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions and are not a substitute for licensed therapy.
- Do both partners need to pay?
- No. One subscription covers the couple. Your partner joins with an invite code and gets their own private login.
- What if my partner won't join yet?
- You can start solo. The assessment and programs still work, and your partner can pair later without losing your history.
- Is anything my partner can see private?
- Yes. Journal entries are private by default; you choose what to share. Assessment scores are shared so you can work on them together.
- We're engaged, not struggling. Is this for us?
- Premarital Foundations was built for you. Couples who do structured prep report fewer surprises in the first year.
- Can we cancel?
- Anytime, from settings. Unused counseling credits stay valid for 12 months.
Ten minutes now beats another year of the same argument.
Take the check-up together tonight. You'll see exactly where to start.
Start the check-up