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Straight answers to the questions couples actually ask

Written by Pastors Leo and Tarran Carter, married since 1983 and counseling couples since 1999. Read freely, then bring the conversation into Two Hearts.

Rebuilding9 min read

How to rebuild trust after cheating

Trust is not rebuilt by promises. It is rebuilt by a long series of small, verifiable, boring acts of honesty. Here is the order those acts have to happen in.

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Engaged8 min read

The premarital counseling questions that actually matter

Wedding planning asks what you want the day to look like. These questions ask what you want the decade to look like. Answer them before the vows, not after.

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Married8 min read

When a marriage has gone quiet: intimacy that starts before the bedroom

A physically quiet marriage is almost never a bedroom problem first. It is a conversation problem that has moved into the bedroom and set up residence.

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Blended family8 min read

Blended family, one team: raising children who did not start together

In a blended family, the marriage is not the last thing to be arranged after the children are settled. It is the thing that settles them.

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Married7 min read

How to stop having the same argument every week

Most couples do not have a hundred problems. They have four, and they have never finished a single conversation about any of them.

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