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The 7-Day Relationship Check-Up
Seven evenings. One question a night. Written by ordained pastors Leo and Tarran Carter, who have walked with engaged and married couples for more than three decades. Whether you are planning a wedding or trying to find your way back to each other, start here.
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Seven questions couples avoid — in the right order
Each question moves through one of the five pillars we use in every Two Hearts program, ending with where you are headed together.
Day 1 · Communication
“What is one thing I did this week that made you feel heard?”
Day 2 · Appreciation
“Three things you appreciate about me that have nothing to do with what I do for you.”
Day 3 · Conflict
“When we argue, what do you need from me in the first five minutes?”
Day 4 · Intimacy
“What makes you feel close to me during an ordinary day?”
Day 5 · Trust
“Is there anything you have been carrying that you have not told me yet?”
Day 6 · Partnership
“Money, children, family, calendars — where are we not on the same page?”
Day 7 · Direction
“A year from now, what do you want to be true about us?”
When seven days uncovers something bigger
The full Two Hearts check-up scores both of you across all five pillars and shows you side by side where the gaps are. From there, guided programs and pastoral sessions do the rest.