1. Stop the bleeding
Before anything is solved, the fighting has to cool. You get a repair script and a way to pause an argument without one of you walking out.
Save my marriage
You want to save this marriage. Start with one honest conversation.
Leo and Tarran Carter have walked couples back from the edge since 1999 — broken trust, the same fight for years, separation already on the table. Sessions are online by video, private, and never recorded.
How the work goes
Five steps from crisis to steady
No lectures and no taking sides. A sequence, and someone in the room who has done this for 25 years.
2. Find the real issue
The check-up scores communication, conflict, intimacy, trust and partnership, so we work on the actual break instead of the last argument.
3. Rebuild trust in order
Honesty, boundaries, consistency, and time. We name what each of you needs to see to believe it is different.
4. Learn to talk again
Money, family, children, faith and intimacy — with questions that get answers instead of defenses.
5. Keep it after the crisis
A short daily ritual and a weekly check-in so the progress does not evaporate three good weeks from now.
Also see marriage counseling and faith-based marriage counseling.
Start tonight, for free
Seven days, seven conversations — beliefs, money, family, children, conflict, intimacy and hope, with the exact questions to ask each other.
Questions
Saving a marriage — FAQ
- Can a marriage be saved when only one of us wants to try?
- Often it starts that way. One spouse begins, learns to lower the heat and repair instead of retaliate, and the other becomes willing. We will work with the partner who is ready and keep the door open for the other.
- We have already talked about separating. Is it too late?
- Not by itself. We slow the decision down, stabilize the daily fighting, and separate the real issue from the exhaustion around it before anyone signs anything.
- How do we rebuild trust after it was broken?
- Forgiving and trusting are two different steps. We give you a sequence: full honesty, boundaries and access, consistent behavior over time, and a plan for the moment the memory hits again.
- Are sessions online?
- Yes. Every session is virtual by video, from home, your office, or two separate places if that feels safer right now. Nothing is recorded, and there is no waiting room and no drive.
- What does it cost, and where do we start?
- Start with the free relationship check-up, then book a session for $95, or a pack of four for $350. The app for both partners is $29 per month or $249 per year.
- Is this licensed therapy?
- No. This is pastoral marriage mentoring by ordained pastors with more than 30 years of experience, not licensed clinical therapy. If there is abuse or immediate danger, call 911 or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
Two Hearts provides pastoral marriage mentoring, not licensed clinical therapy or mental health treatment. In an emergency, call 911 or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.