With membership

Have the hard conversations before the vows

Eight guided conversations on the subjects that decide how a marriage goes: money and credit, faith and beliefs, children and parenting, in-laws, intimacy, and how the two of you will handle conflict. Completing it with us also qualifies you for our member rate if you would like us to officiate.

Included with membership

What happens

  1. 1Take the free five-pillar check-up together.
  2. 2Work through the premarital topics at your own pace.
  3. 3Bring anything unresolved into a session with the Carters.
  4. 4Finish with a written plan for money, family, faith and conflict.

Who this is for

Engaged couples, couples talking seriously about marriage, and couples marrying with children already in the picture.

What you get

  • Eight guided premarital topics
  • Blended family and parenting plans
  • Qualifies you for the member wedding rate

One membership covers both of you

$29 a month or $249 a year — programs, premarital course, daily ritual, conflict toolkit and library.

Book a service

Choose what you would like and we will confirm a time. This goes straight to Pastors Leo and Tarran.

Every counseling session is virtual — by video, from wherever you are.

This one comes with a membership. We will help you activate it when we reply.

Best time of day for you

Pick every window that works — sessions are online, so we can meet early or late. Times are in your own time zone (your local time); we do the converting.

Pastoral marriage mentoring, not licensed therapy or mental health care. If you are in crisis, please contact emergency services or a licensed professional.

Common questions

How long does it take?
Most couples finish in six to eight weeks doing one topic a week, but you can move faster if the wedding is close.
Does it qualify us for the member wedding rate?
Yes. Couples who complete our premarital counseling pay the $300 member rate for officiating instead of $450.

Also worth a look

Pastoral marriage mentoring with ordained pastors Leo and Tarran Carter — not licensed therapy or a substitute for clinical mental health care.