Does it work if only one of us uses it?

It helps, but the repair language works best when you both agree to it ahead of time.

Conflict toolkit | Two Hearts Mentoring

With membership

Help in the middle of the argument, not after it

A pause timer, repair language, and guided conversation scripts for the fights that repeat. Open it while things are hot and it walks the two of you back to the actual issue.

Included with membership

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What happens

1Either of you opens the toolkit and starts a pause.
2You each read the repair language and take a breath.
3A guided script walks you through the real issue.
4If it is too big, you book a session with the Carters.

Who this is for

Couples stuck in the same argument, and couples who go quiet instead of talking.

What you get

Pause timer for hot moments
Repair language that works
Research-backed conversation guides

One membership covers both of you

$29 a month or $249 a year — programs, premarital course, daily ritual, conflict toolkit and library.

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Book a service

Choose what you would like and we will confirm a time. This goes straight to Pastors Leo and Tarran.

Every counseling session is virtual — by video, from wherever you are.

Which service?

Your name(s)

Phone (optional)

Anything else about timing

Best time of day for you

Pick every window that works — sessions are online, so we can meet early or late. Times are in your own time zone (your local time); we do the converting.

What would you like help with?

Pastoral marriage mentoring, not licensed therapy or mental health care. If you are in crisis, please contact emergency services or a licensed professional.

Common questions

Does it work if only one of us uses it?: It helps, but the repair language works best when you both agree to it ahead of time.

Also worth a look

Online pastoral sessions

$95 per 50-minute session

Video sessions with Leo and Tarran Carter from home or your office. Packs: 4 for $350, 8 for $640.

Premarital counseling

Included with membership

Money, faith, children, family, intimacy and expectations covered before the wedding day.

5-pillar relationship check-up

Free to start

Score communication, conflict, intimacy, trust and partnership, then track the change over time.

Pastoral marriage mentoring with ordained pastors Leo and Tarran Carter — not licensed therapy or a substitute for clinical mental health care.